Potty Talk

 This is a sponsored post. I was compensated by Potty Time Stickers and given a free Potty Time Sticker chart. Although I was already using the sticker chart before they contacted me, so shhhh!!! don’t tell them. I’m saving my new chart for when we potty train my youngest. All opinions are my own. 

Breaking News!!!!!

My oldest is potty trained.

I may have said I’d never write about the potty, but I’m so proud of my little one, I just can’t help it. And this has been a LOOONNNNNGGGGG time coming. Yahooooo!!!!!

So just to give you some background, my daughter is 3 years, 10 months. I really think we missed out opportunity last summer when she was showing a lot of interest in the potty. But to be honest, we are on the move all the time, and diapers were actually easier for all our travels. I really never thought it was going to happen…and I was prepping to do an intensive three-day cold turkey intervention.

And then it happened.

One day after gymnastics class, she wet through her diaper and outfit. I explained that she was too big for her diapers and now that she is almost four, the diapers just don’t fit anymore. I told her we were going to try undies. She protested. And I mean really protested. Screamed, cried….total tantrum. I tried to put undies on her and she would not allow it. I asked her what she wanted to wear and she said nothing.

So that’s what she wore. Nothing. For about two hours. No diapers, no undies, no pants. After two hours, she got cold and asked for pants. Still no undies. And that was it. Sayonara diapers. And she never looked back.

When I dropped her off at school the next day, I had to explain the situation to the teachers and tell them she was commando. She went commando for a full week.

A week later, we had a dentist appointment. For some reason, she equates the dentist with being a “big girl,” and apparently also “big girl” with undies. So she woke up and asked for undies!

CRAZINESS!

She has such a different confidence about her now. I’m so proud of her.

Okay, so I’m not an expert but here are some of my notes, key learnings and advice from our potty training process:

Skip the little potty chairs. Start with the big potty and if needed, get a training seat that goes on the big potty. Maybe this isn’t for everyone, but my little one was not impressed with the potty chair. It isn’t what Mommy and Daddy use so why should she.
Don’t think there is a right or a wrong way. There is not. There is the way that works for you kid. The way that worked for my kid was commando.

Pick a method and stick with it. For rewards, we used stickers and dark chocolate chips. We used the big potty only. We didn’t have her sit on it for long periods of time. And make sure you and your significant other pick the same method. Also, make sure to clearly communicate with teachers/daycare providers so everyone is on the same page. The last thing your little one needs is different messages from all over.

Use rewards. I know not everyone likes this philosophy but it worked for us….eventually. We used dark chocolate chips and also the Potty Time Sticker Chart. Created by a working mom, the chart is now available at CVS stores nationwide for $2.99. It’s easy to hang in the bathroom and my favorite part was that there is an “end”. There are places for 40 stickers…and it just so happened, we kicked the diapers on the 37th sticker. Coincidence? I think not. My little felt part of the process and loved picking the new sticker for her chart.

Stock up on laundry detergent. There will be a lot of laundry.

Be prepared. Accidents will happen. Just be prepared so you’re not stumbling around in the middle of the night. Have an extra pair of PJs and undies easily accessible. Bring full changes of clothes in the car if you are out and about. Some people have found post-it notes useful to put on auto-flush toilets when they are out (sometimes they scare littles).

Don’t over-buy undies. I bought a bunch of pair when we first started the process. Now they are too small and I needed to buy new ones.

Boys undies are perfecting acceptable for girls. My daughter LOVES her Mickey Mouse, Jake and the Pirates and Handy Manny undies I got her from the boys section at Target. While it was odd to be putting “Handy Manny” undies on my almost 4-year-old girl, she wanted them and she loved them. Who cares right?

 This is a sponsored post. I was compensated by Potty Time Stickers and given a free Potty Time Sticker chart. Although I was already using the sticker chart before they contacted me, so shhhh!!! don’t tell them. I’m saving my new chart for when we potty train my youngest. All opinions are my own.